Unseen Praises

​The Unseen Praises: A Call to Humble Discernment

​In a world increasingly driven by the clamor for attention and the echo chambers of agreement, the art of praise has become both diluted and misdirected. We often find ourselves quick to laud those who align with our personal beliefs, our political leanings, or simply our immediate kin. While love for family is a divine imperative, and affirmation can be a powerful tool, our current patterns often fall short of true, selfless encouragement. The scriptures offer a profound counter-narrative, urging us to look beyond the surface, to praise with purpose, and to cultivate a spirit of genuine humility that seeks nothing for itself.

​The Bible consistently reminds us that true virtue flourishes not in the spotlight, but in the quiet acts of devotion and service. Proverbs 27:2 wisely instructs, "Let another praise you, and not your own mouth; a stranger, and not your own lips." This isn't a call to self-deprecation, but to a deeper understanding that our worth is not derived from human accolades. Psychologically, this resonates with research on intrinsic motivation, which demonstrates that actions stemming from internal values—like kindness, integrity, and faith—are far more sustainable and fulfilling than those driven by the desire for external validation. When we issue vague praise like "you're a good boy," we miss an opportunity to affirm specific, commendable efforts or character traits, thereby failing to truly edify. Instead, let our praise be precise, recognizing the fruits of the Spirit at work, fostering a growth mindset rather than simply inflating an ego.

​Ultimately, our walk of faith calls us to be humble servants, extending grace and recognition to others while seeking none for ourselves. As Matthew 6:3 encourages, "But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing." This radical humility frees us from the endless pursuit of human approval and allows us to genuinely celebrate the goodness we see in those around us. Our joy should stem from witnessing God’s grace unfold in another’s life, not from being the recipient of applause. Let us strive to be discerning givers of praise, lifting up those whose quiet acts of faith and service often go unnoticed, embodying the true spirit of Christ who taught us to serve, not to be served. May our lives be a testament to this selfless love, a beacon of encouragement in a world desperately needing authentic affirmation.