I've spent a lot of time talking about my role as a parent, and you might have noticed my last post was a bit of a detour into tidiness. At first, it might seem unrelated, but these topics are more connected than you'd think.
You see, I grew up in a single-parent home that was always busy, and while things were kept organized, there was always a lot of what I’d call “organized clutter.” As a result, I've carried a certain level of messiness into my own adult life. I've always been more focused on ideas, my work, and the people in my life than on the physical world around me. This isn't to say my house is a total disaster—it’s just a matter of perspective. While some might see it as just a little untidy, my grandmother, whose home was immaculately organized, would probably see it as quite a bit more than that.
And that’s where the connection to my parenting journey comes in. I'm determined not to pass on my cluttered habits to my daughter, Charlotte. I want her to grow up in a space that feels calm and peaceful, much like my grandmother's home. The "Mindful Organization" framework I shared in the last article isn't just a random list of tips; it’s my personal attempt to achieve this.
My grandmother once told me she couldn’t relax in a cluttered home, and that really stuck with me. She's taught me that a tidy space isn't about perfection; it’s about creating an environment where you can feel psychologically at ease. It's truly a testament to the fact that blending different family perspectives can bring about wonderful change.
So, while my blog topics might seem scattered—jumping from parenting to tidiness—they are all part of the same journey. This is my way of trying to organize not just my physical space, but my thoughts and actions, so that my life and my daughter’s life can be a little less chaotic. It's all connected, and it's all part of my messy but meaningful quest to be the best parent I can be.
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