Monday, August 04, 2025

Like a lot of children,her age Charlotte went through a phase where she liked to say no to pretty much everything. So, I wrote this short story to read to her. It's a way for her to understand how saying "no" all the time can sometimes make you feel sad. I used the story to make the point without just telling her, "You shouldn't say no all the time."
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​Charlotte, a little five-year-old girl with blonde hair and bangs, loved the word no. It was her favorite word in the whole world. She said "no" to everything.
​"Charlotte, would you like some blueberry pancakes for breakfast?" her Daddy would ask.
​"No," Charlotte would say, even though blueberry pancakes were her favorite.
​"Charlotte, do you want to play at the park?" her Daddy would ask. "You can go on the swing and the play structure."
​"No," Charlotte would answer, even though she loved to swing high into the sky and slide down the twisty slide.
​One day, a blue jay landed on her windowsill. "Caw caw!" it called out.
​"No," Charlotte told the bird. The blue jay tilted its head, its bright eyes seeming to peer right through her, and then it swooped off with a flash of blue.
​That afternoon, a fluffy Shih Tzu with a little topknot wagged its tail at her from behind the fence. "Woof!" it barked happily.
​"No," Charlotte said to the small dog. It whimpered sadly and trotted away.
​The next day, a little girl with pigtails skipped up to Charlotte's front door. "Hi! My name is Maya. Would you like to build a sandcastle with me in the sandbox?" she asked, holding up a bright red shovel.
​Charlotte thought about how much fun it would be to build a sandcastle, with moats and towers and tiny seashell decorations. But then she remembered her favorite word. "No," she said.
​Maya's smile drooped. She put her shovel down and walked away, her pigtails bouncing sadly.
​That night, as she was tucked into bed, her Daddy came to say goodnight. "Charlotte," he said softly, "I have a special surprise for you tomorrow, but you have to say 'yes' to find out what it is."
​Charlotte thought about all the things she had said "no" to. The delicious blueberry pancakes, the fun at the park, the blue jay, the fluffy Shih Tzu, and the wonderful sandcastle. Her heart felt a little bit empty. She realized that saying "no" all the time was like keeping all the fun and good things locked away in a box.
​The next morning, when her Daddy came into her room, he looked at Charlotte. "Charlotte, are you ready for a fun day?"
​Charlotte took a deep breath. She didn't want to say "no" anymore. She wanted to let the good things out of the box.
​"Yes!" she said, and it felt like sunshine.
​Charlotte's Daddy's face brightened. "Wonderful! Because today, we're going to the zoo to see the elephants and giraffes, and Maya and her family are meeting us there!"
​And Charlotte's heart felt as full as a big, fluffy cloud. She had learned that while "no" could be a safe word, "yes" was the key that unlocked a whole world of adventures. From that day on, she made sure to use both words, but she always made room for a little bit of "yes."

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